S-l-o-w-l-y Nov 02, 2016

Before we left for Kilimanjaro, I’d read that we’d hear the phrase pole pole (say pole-ay pole-ay) a lot. It means slowly in Swahili, and it’s what the guides say as you’re hiking. Makes sense: we k...

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Who are you not? Oct 26, 2016

Carl Jung said You are what you do, not what you say you’ll do. My version: We aren’t what we don’t do, even if we really want to be.

Do you want to be a regular meditator, a three-time-a-week runn...

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Who are you? Oct 19, 2016

 

Grab a piece of paper and a pen. Now write down the first thoughts that come to mind when I ask Who are you? Take a couple of minutes and write it all down.

Excellent. Now, read through your respo...

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The Hat of Mindfulness (and safari photos) Oct 12, 2016

Believe it or not, one of the keys to getting me up and down Mount Kilimanjaro was a hat. Not just any hat, but THE HAT OF MINDFULNESS.

Before we left, I bought myself a wide-brimmed hat, just the ...

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I’m On Team Journey Sep 28, 2016

In which a destination person learns to appreciate the journey.

Before we left on our Kilimanjaro triumph, I wrote about how the journey is the destination. Truth be told, I believed that maybe 70%...

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We made it! Sep 21, 2016

We made it. We made it! We made it.

On September 10 (my husband’s birthday), we realized our goal of summiting Mount Kilimanjaro. At 19,341 feet, it’s Africa’s highest peak. It’s also one of the Se...

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The only way out . . . Aug 17, 2016

It’s been an incredible amount of hard work to train for our Kilimanjaro trip. And hard work demands a mantra.

Sometimes I find myself slogging through a strength workout, wondering if I’ve complet...

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lovingkindness Aug 08, 2016

It’s an angry time. Is there anything more divisive than an election season, especially this one? I often feel like my beliefs are pitted against other peoples’ and social media simply adds fuel to ...

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Journey vs. Destination Jul 20, 2016

Are you a journey person or a destination person? Do you enjoy the work it takes to get you to a goal, or is the end result the most important thing?

I’m a little of both. More specifically, I’m a ...

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Plot Twist! Jul 13, 2016

Life is rarely linear and often has no interest in following whatever script we’ve written out for ourselves. I know for dead-certain that I didn’t plan to get cancer (or that scary heart virus, or ...

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